Men

Is it really true that men can decide loving and not loving someone as if they were deciding which video game they want to play?

My past two relationships, all ended because the men needed space to think about what THEY wanted. That THEY think they don't want a relationship. That THEY don't have the time to have a relationship. That THEY can't contribute to the relationship, even however much they wanted to, because work is too busy.

WHAT ABOUT ME??????

Is loving someone with all you have wrong? By doing so are you bound to get hurt? I've tried 2 times and all ended the same way...

But if you don't love with your all and to protect yourself in some sort of way, is that love?